Ms. Lanza divorced her husband, Peter Lanza, in 2009 after a long separation, a relative said.

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Adam's parents divorced in 2009, after a long separation, said Mary Ann Lanza.

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But not long after the second child was born, Selekman felt a dramatic physical separation from his wife.

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