And you have to help your parents out, because when they ask you to make the change, what don't we want you to do, parents?

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"Don't ask me to write a check for you when you think your job is at risk, and then don't pay any attention to me when my job is at stake, " said Chris Dodd, head of the Motion Picture Association of America and a former Democratic senator, on Fox News.

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Whatever you do, don't abuse your network or get lazy about how and when you ask for help.

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You don't ask the price because you wrongly think your employer is paying for the care when in reality it's really your money that your employer is spending on your behalf.

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