The couple had sent Victoria to stay with her greataunt Marie-Therese Kouao - now in jail for her murder - in the hope their daughter would have a European education.
However as I left with the assurance that the family and friends would take great care of her, an old aunt pulled me to one side and told me to aim high, there's room for everyone up there -- a motto which has stayed with me always.
His father had aunts who were born in the late Victorian era, and regular tea with his great-aunt Isie provided firsthand access to a bygone existence.
The couple had at one time agreed to look after Victoria for six months, after being asked by social services when thegreataunt accused her boyfriend of sexually abusing the little girl.