If I ask you to help me, you can refuse and I will find others who will help me.

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"If you can't give a coherent, responsible answer to the question, 'How can I help you, ' then you don't have the right to ask for help, " Wolkstein advises.

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To help you identify your underlying thoughts around a situation you can ask: Through my actions, am I trying to .

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