And as for feeding the baby at night, sometimes I'll splurge and pay two hundred bucks for a baby nurse, or what Ilike to call my surrogate husband, without benefits.
It would have been good to share my views with other fathers and I would have felt more able to talk about the things that worry me like the health of the baby and how I support my partner through the pain of labour.
"I was just beginning to feel what a mother's love is like for her child, yet I had no understanding of how difficult it was going to be to leave mybaby behind, " Babar said.