This was all brought home to me when I went to the small New South Wales town of Gulargambone.

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The fierceness came home to me in Xian when we went to see the warriors.

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"After the World Cup when I went back home, they spoke to me and told me to hang in there, at least for their own sake, " Okocha revealed.

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This was compounded back in 2008 when I went through a divorce leaving me to deal with an enormous home loan, spiraling debt , shared care of my two little boys, and a struggling business with outgoings vastly exceeding incomings!

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