These are often distilled into deadpan rituals, with the director maintaining his Proustian interest in habit in its capacity both to mortify and console.

NEWYORKER: The Time That Remains

It is not only deeply painful for the two of us but also for everyone else affected and it would mortify our mother if she were alive today and, if we might say so, we feel we are more able to speak for our mother than Paul.

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