And if you should meet your one true love on your morning trek for doughnuts, Voodoo offers legitimate wedding services at the counter.

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NPR: Part One

Yet both fear in their way that only their understanding of humility and love is the true one that if they try to meet the other side on terms of humility and love, there will be a subtle trick, they will have given the game away, what they hate most will be smuggled in and overwhelm them, defenses down.

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The same holds true for the cost of starting a business you love, versus one that you hate.

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One high-stress trip can result in a relationship flameout or the discovery of true love.

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