Post says that contrary to popular belief, the bridal shower isn't the maid of honor's obligation.

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The maid of honor hates her guts -- even before Kym insists she should have had the job by birthright.

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Traditionally, a close friend would throw a bridal shower for the bride, and sometimes that person is also the maid of honor.

CNN: Too broke to be your maid of honor

And though there may be multiple parties thrown for the happy couple, Post says, the maid of honor is not required to go.

CNN: Too broke to be your maid of honor

She insists that the entire bridal party -- especially the maid of honor -- is expected to attend all parties and shell out for a gift each time.

CNN: Too broke to be your maid of honor