People who view themselves as unlovable find saying that they are so unbelievable that it strengthens their own negative view rather than reversing it.
"If we're alone and feel isolated or alienated by those we are closest to, then we start feeling like we're unlovable and worthless and life doesn't matter, " she said.
It hurts to think that there are things about you that are unlovable, or that your own idiosyncrasies, beliefs and personality might make you incompatible with 98% of the relationship world.