What Posner means is that her mother, Esther, who died in Florida in October at the age of 85, was organized--in her fashion.

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Her daughter is still struggling to come to terms with what happened - and is still angry at the treatment her mother received.

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She is not sure if her mother knew what was going on.

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"I was just beginning to feel what a mother's love is like for her child, yet I had no understanding of how difficult it was going to be to leave my baby behind, " Babar said.

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And what about the argument that she is a negligent mother who will be distracted from her important role?

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The Capobiancos think the issue should be about whether the ICWA law can improperly block adoption proceedings voluntarily initiated by a non-Indian mother who had sole custody of her child, due to what the adoptive parents say is the Indian father's failure to establish a legal parent-child relationship under state law.

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This is about what reform would mean for the mother with breast cancer whose insurance company will finally have to pay for her chemotherapy.

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