It starts to feel easier to walk away than struggle back through the neglect.

你会开始觉得，放弃一段友谊，比努力挽回容易多了。

youdao

So, when the argument starts, just let your spouse know that this issue isn't something your willing to argue about, and walk away. If the issue is that important you will get back to it eventually.

所以，当争吵即将爆发的时候，你要让你的伴侣知道，这个问题根本不值得争吵，如果这个问题很重要，冷静以后，再讨论。

youdao

So, when the argument starts, just let your spouse know that this issue isn't something your willing to argue about, and walk away. If the issue is that important you will get back to it eventually.

所以，当争吵即将爆发的时候，你要让你的伴侣知道，这个问题根本不值得争吵，如果这个问题很重要，冷静以后，再讨论。

youdao