Ask the other person, "What can I do to help you?" and be glad to do it.
问另一个人，“我能帮你做什么？”并乐意这么做。
If one person manages to create a dish, the other person will write the process and take photos.
如果一个人成功地做出了一道菜，另一个人则负责记录过程并拍照。
The other person "might realise she's not as trapped as you are saying she is, or as she feels."
另一个人“可能意识到她并不像你说的那样或她感觉的那样处于困境中”。
Don't decide the purpose of the other person by your guessing.
不要凭猜测来判定他人的目的。
It may also depend on your relationship with the other person.
这也可能取决于你和对方的关系。
That means not always making yourself "right" or "clever" and the other person "wrong" or "stupid".
这意味着不要总是让自己变得“正确”或“聪明”，而让别人变得“错误”或“愚蠢”。
Another way to end a conversation is to make it easy for the other person to leave.
结束对话的另一种方式是让对方自如地离开。
Either you or the other person may need to continue an activity such as working or shopping.
你或对方可能需要继续某项活动，如工作或购物。
Explain yourself and not the other person, so you can speak out your ideas by starting with "I" but not "You".
解释自己（的想法）而不是他人，这样你就能以“我”而不是“你”开始说出你的想法。
If you don't give your hundred percent in a relationship, you'll always keep thinking if the other person has given his or her hundred percent.
如果你在一段关系中没有百分百地付出，你就会一直在想对方是否也付出了百分百。
That means to tell the other person how you're feeling, why you feel that way, and what he or she can please do to make it better.
那意味着告诉对方你的感受如何，为什么你会有这种感觉，以及他或她能做些什么来让事情变得更好。
Drop any revenge you have towards the other person.
放下你对对方的任何报复。
How do you do this without directly asking the other person?
你如何做到这一点而不直接问别人?
The last tip is to let the other person feel like the idea was theirs.
最后一个建议是让对方觉得这个主意是他们的。
Tip number four is to let the other person do a great amount of talking.
第四条建议是让对方多说话。
Tip number three is to get the other person saying yes as fast as possible.
第三个建议是尽快让对方答应。
It could be joyful if the other person responses could be hell on earth if you feel rejected.
如果你感到被拒绝，对方的反应可能是人间地狱，这可能是件令人高兴的事。
It will soften your speech so that you can pose the question without offending the other person.
它会很好地柔化你的言语，这样你就可以在不冒犯其他人的情况下提出自己的问题。
This will make you sound confident, and it'll make it easier for the other person to understand you.
这会让你听起来自信，还会让别人更容易理解你。
With simultaneous interpreting, you start translating almost as soon as the other person starts speaking.
在做同声传译时，你几乎是在对方开始说话时就开始翻译。
Maybe you're practicing English with a native speaker and you didn't quite catch what the other person said.
也许你正和一位母语为英语的朋友练习英语，但你没能很好地理解那个人在说什么。
Simply slowing the pace and talking in an even tone helps the other person cool down and does the same for you.
只要放慢节奏，用平静的语气说话就能让对方冷静下来，也能让自己冷静下来。
When you meet someone for the first time, by the time you have stated your name or shaken hands, the other person has already formed an opinion about the kind of person you are.
当你第一次与某人见面时，当你说出你的名字或和对方握手时，对方已经对你是什么样的人形成了看法。
Be interested in the OTHER person.
对另一个人感兴趣。
The other person gives the details.
另一个人给出了细节。
是对方做的吗？
You want the other person to take an action.
你想要别人行动起来。
I can forget the other person isn't really there.
我会忘记另一个人并不真的在那里。
And the other person has to answer the questions.
另一个人就要回答这些问题。
Four, do not criticize the other person publically.
不要当众批评他人。
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