You have to find your own groove, but chances are that you have to tell people what you think if you’ve got a small crowd bothering you all the time.
你要调整到自己的最佳状态,但是如果你身边总是有一小堆人在打扰你的话,那么你要把握好机会告诉他们你怎么想的。
If there is a phone call you need to make, for example, it might bother you all morning, sapping your ability to think clearly, even while you are unaware of what is bothering you.
比如你需要接一个电话,它可能打扰了你一早晨,它使你无法思考清晰,甚至当时你都没有意识到是什么在困扰你。
Are they bothering you, because you genuinely don't think they 'vibe' with you?
因为你觉得根本和他们不合群,因此他们惹怒了你么?
All of these small things that are bothering you may be harmless on their own, but they hurt you because they touch your wounds just like the water did.
所有困扰着你的这些小事也许本身无害,但是它们会伤害到你,原因正如水一样,它们触及到了你的伤口。
Do not talk when you are both angry. Make sure that you both calm down and then talk about the matter bothering the both of you.
当双方在气头上的时候不要去讨论,一定要等消了气冷静下来以后再去谈是什么事让你们那么不舒服。
I hope I am not bothering you because I know you are a very busy man.
我希望我没有打扰你,因为我知道你是一个非常忙碌的人。
These are the things that are bothering you and you don't even have enough self-esteem to tell him what you need to feel good.
这些正是困扰你的东西,而你甚至没有足够的勇气告诉他你需要什么才能让自己感觉好起来。
Her conversations are always curt, her emails rarely stretch beyond a word or two, and any question you ask her is greeted with a "Why are you bothering me?" attitude.
她的对话总是间断唐突,她的电子邮件极少超过记歌词,任何你问她的问题都受到一种”为什么你要烦我“的态度?
Her conversations are always curt, her emails rarely stretch beyond a word or two, and any question you ask her is greeted with a "Why are you bothering me?" attitude.
她的对话总是间断唐突,她的电子邮件极少超过记歌词,任何你问她的问题都受到一种”为什么你要烦我“的态度?
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