because they don't instinctively appreciate that people's interests and desires tend to be attuned to where they're looking.

因为他们无法出于本能地理解,人们的兴趣欲望,倾向于和他们的视线相一致

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I am built, I am hard wired, to be attuned to your pain.

人有一种天生的能力，我能对你的痛苦感同身受。

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