That's what hurts, -- the person who always was positive who now-- whose regard starts to fade.

真正伤害你的，是一直对你好的那个人-,开始冷淡你。

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The first derivative of their regard for us is positive. Okay?

他们对我们态度的转变首先是积极的，，对吧？

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