I actually wanna bridge a little bit from the first part of your question which is a personal part.

我想先简要回答,你的问题的前半部分,这部分是有关我个人的问题。

普林斯顿公开课 - 人性课程节选

It comes from personal experience that raises a question at least about whether all values can be translated without loss into utilitarian terms.

是亲身见闻所引起的疑问,是否所有的价值都可以完好无损地,转换为功利主义的形式。

耶鲁公开课 - 公正课程节选

It is found that the most effective way of dealing with this phenomenon was actually to cultivate the positive,to cultivate personal strengths, to cultivate and identify one's passions, ? to ask a question such as "what is meaningful to me in my life?

事实证明，处理这种现象,最有效的方法是,培养积极性和个人优点，培育激情，提出这种问题“我人生中什么是有意义的？

哈佛公开课 - 幸福课课程节选