if you have all three, intimacy, passion, commitment, this is "consummate love" according to Sternberg complete love.

如果亲近，激情和承诺三者兼而有之，这就是完美式爱情，完整的爱情。

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" Student: "Can someone feel consummate love for more than one person?"

学生：“一个人能同时和两个人以上拥有完美式爱情吗“

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And they might get married,or they might not get married, but they don't get to consummate their love.

然后他们可能会结婚，可能不会，但是他们不会完婚圆房的。

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Oh. Can someone feel consummate love for more than one person?

噢，一个人能否同时和两个人以上拥有完美式爱情？

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