There is a kind of cultural myth around the stranger, the person you don't know, who you will--who you fall in love with.

可能对陌生人有一种文化迷思，你不认识他，却将要爱上他。

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Excellent. Okay. So, just to be warned, you might fall in love with the subject you do your UROP in.

所以先警告你们，你们可能会爱上,你们UROP所做的。

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It isn't the stranger you fall in love with.

你爱上的不是陌生人。

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So, suppose you fall in love with somebody and you decide you want to marry them and then somebody was asked to ask you why and you'd say something like, " "Well, I'm ready to get married this stage of my life; " I really love the person; " the person is smart and attractive; I want to have kids" whatever.

假设你爱上了某人,想要与对方一同步入婚姻的殿堂,要是有人问你为什么想要与对方共度余生,你大概会说，“现在我已准备好要开始婚姻生活了;,或“我真心的爱着他;,或“他聪明有魅力;,“我想要小孩了“，等等。

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