You can only hurt the one you love because you are expecting positive feedback from the one you love.

之所以这样说，是因为,你总期待着他们给你积极地回应。

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Oh. You can only hurt the one you love. Right?

你只会被所爱的人伤害，对吧？

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It's just something is wrong: ?" one minute you are envious and the next minute you experience love?"

事情不对劲：,前一分钟充满嫉妒，转眼体会无尽爱意“

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And this is--God, I love this--one picture, you first see the first picture you can actually see of Paris, the faubourg du temple.

这个是,天啊,我爱死这张了,这是你能看到的巴黎的第一张照片,在圣殿郊区街拍的

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Leviticus 19:33-34: "When a stranger resides with you in your land, you shall not wrong him. The stranger who resides with you shall be to you as one of your citizens; you shall love him as yourself, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt: I, the Lord, am your God."

利未记》第19章33-34节的记录如下，若有外人在你们国中，和你同居，就不可欺负他，和你们同居的外人,你们要看他如本地人一样，并要爱他如己，因为你们,在埃及地也作过寄居的，我是耶和华你们的上帝“

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Students, graduate students who said I want to do as you do. I want to write about love and sex, the meaning of life and film and one shot is I always say, but where you gonna get a job?

我的研究生有的说,我想和你一样写爱情和性爱，揭示生活的意义，写电影，和，镜头,我会这么回答，你去哪里找工作？

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So you can only hurt the one you can love but the one who always loves you sometimes has trouble showing you that they love you.

所以你只会被所爱的人伤害,但是一直爱你的人,有时不善于表达他们对你的爱意。

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The one who didn't really love you that much but then starts to show you that they love you, that person is a powerful influence on your behavior.

爱你不深的人,开始对你示爱，这样的人会强烈影响你的行为。

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And these aren't necessarily so incompatible but the evolutionary perspective I think would argue that you can feel that kind of love for more than one person or at least it would facilitate the passing on of your genetic material to a larger array of the next generation.

两种观点不太相容,但是持进化论观点的人认为,你可以和两个以上的人拥有完美式的爱情,至少会促进,你的基因传给更多下一代的人。

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