If you're at home, you'll do it with your family, now you're in university, where do I do it, who do I go and eat with, I might be by myself at my dorm room.

如果你在家里，你会和你的家人一起，而现在你在学校里，就不知道在哪里，和谁一起去吃这顿晚餐，也许就自己一人在寝室。

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Well, unlike the choosiness studies, here we actually have some pretty good cross-cultural data So one study, for instance, was done in 10,000 people from thirty-seven countries, ?" asking people, "Who do you want to be with?"

与伴侣选择标准研究不同，我们事实上有一些很好的跨文化数据,例如，有一个调研,以来自37个国家的1万个人为调研对象，问他们“你最想和谁在一起“

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