Did the cat get your tongue Did your string come undone One by one One by one It comes to us all It's as soft as your pillow (SINGING) I dreamed I was missing You were so scared But no one would listen 'Cause no one else cared After my dreaming I woke with this fear What am I leaving When I'm done here?

VOA: standard.other

It's not about marriage, and marriage will still seem quite a ways off, I fear, when you read Lycidas, but we will be marking the transition to the poetry of marriage soon enough.

那不是讲婚姻的，我担心当你们读《利西亚斯》的时候，婚姻仍是一个走出的方法，但是我们,将很快标记诗篇中关于婚姻的转变。

耶鲁公开课 - 弥尔顿课程节选

It's more complicated than that but the notion is you can use these associative tools perhaps to deal with questions about fear, phobias and how they go away.

但实际情况要复杂得多,你或许可以利用这些有关的治疗方法,来理解关于恐惧，恐惧症,以及他们如何才能消失的问题。

耶鲁公开课 - 心理学导论课程节选

So, what they do is what's called, "Systematic desensitization," which is they expose you to what causes you the fear but they relax you at the same time so you replace the aversive classical conditioned fear with something more positive.

治疗的方法叫做“系统脱敏疗法“,也就是将你暴露在引起恐惧的情境下,但同时让你放松,所以你用更加积极的感觉,替换了经典条件作用造成的厌恶性恐惧。

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