There is a kind of cultural myth around the stranger, the person you don't know, who you will--who you fall in love with.

可能对陌生人有一种文化迷思，你不认识他，却将要爱上他。

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If you like your food, you will really love it.

如果你喜欢食物，你会真的爱上它。

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It isn't the stranger you fall in love with.

你爱上的不是陌生人。

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And my guess is the result is yes, you could but you're not going to feel un-conflicted about it and it's because these two are conflicting each other at the same time.

我的观点是，你可以爱上两个以上的人，你可以这样做，但是你会内心很矛盾,因为这两者,一直思想一直不停地在做斗争。

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The reason why you're feeling that way is because the barista made a mistake and gave you caffeinated espresso when you asked for decaf " or maybe you just love me." Right.

原因在于,店员犯了错,给了你带双倍咖啡因的咖啡，而不是无咖啡因的,或者你是真爱上我了。

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So, suppose you fall in love with somebody and you decide you want to marry them and then somebody was asked to ask you why and you'd say something like, " "Well, I'm ready to get married this stage of my life; " I really love the person; " the person is smart and attractive; I want to have kids" whatever.

假设你爱上了某人,想要与对方一同步入婚姻的殿堂,要是有人问你为什么想要与对方共度余生,你大概会说，“现在我已准备好要开始婚姻生活了;,或“我真心的爱着他;,或“他聪明有魅力;,“我想要小孩了“，等等。

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