It's just that other meanings are available, and since they're not on the same page, those two other meanings coexist painfully and irreducibly at odds, right?

它只是说其它意思也有可能，由于它们不是在同一水平线上，这两种其它意思,痛苦地共存着，同时又不可削减地矛盾着，对吧？

耶鲁公开课 - 文学理论导论课程节选

He responds to this grievous loss privately by taking it on himself, by seeking to master it himself, and specifically as a worker.

他私下里对失去孩子的痛苦的反应,是自己承受，努力地自己承受，尤其是作为一名工人。

耶鲁公开课 - 现代诗歌课程节选

It's how quickly, how promptly we can recover from these painful emotions-- in other words, how strong our psychological immune system is.

区别在于他们能够多么迅速，多么快速地从痛苦情绪中恢复过来-,换言之，我们的心理免疫系统有多强。

哈佛公开课 - 幸福课课程节选

It's that people who experience painful emotions but are all in the same time able to shift themselves, their consciousness, their thinking, their experience to the positive more readily.

那些人经历痛苦情绪,但同时能够更好地，把自己，他们的意识，思想，他们的感受向积极方向转移。

哈佛公开课 - 幸福课课程节选