Incidentally, sort of side topic: The death knell for a marriage for Gottman This is his big finding.

顺便提一下，一个次要的话题：,对他来说婚姻结束的标志,这是他的大发现。

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The death knell of a marriage is contempt.

婚姻结束的标志是互相蔑视。

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