Take some time to cool off, then come back and look at why you got upset, remember that the other person is probably upset too, and then try and see it from their point of view.
花些时间冷静一下，然后回来思考你为什么会伤心，记住，他人可能也在难过，之后试图从他们的角度看问题。
You want the other person to take an action.
你想要别人行动起来。
You simply need to take an active interest in what the other person has to say.
你只需要注意他们对你说了什么。
Now know that the people might not take too much sense, but it is sent to the other person to have some taste in mind.
现在才知道，走的人或许没有太多的感觉，但是送的人却是别有一番滋味在心头。
It's way too easy take something personally and think behavior is about us, when it is really about the other person.
我们很容易把事情私人化，并认为行为和自己有关，其实那是别人的事情。
Take couples as an example; one person strictly controls the other on financial expenses.
比如夫妻双方，一方对另外一方财务上的支出严格地控制。
No matter how busy you are, you must take time to make the other person feel important.
不管你有多么忙碌，你必须花时间让他人感觉他的重要。
Enjoy every bite of food, take time to look around you, let the other person finish their side of the conversation.
享受每一口食物，花点时间看看周围，让别人完成他们的倾诉。
Enjoy every bite of food, take time to look around you, let the other person finish their side of the conversation.
享受每一口食物，花点时间看看周围，让别人完成他们的倾诉。
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