Drop any revenge you have towards the other person.
放下你对对方的任何报复。
How do you do this without directly asking the other person?
你如何做到这一点而不直接问别人?
The last tip is to let the other person feel like the idea was theirs.
最后一个建议是让对方觉得这个主意是他们的。
Tip number four is to let the other person do a great amount of talking.
第四条建议是让对方多说话。
Tip number three is to get the other person saying yes as fast as possible.
第三个建议是尽快让对方答应。
This will make you sound confident, and it'll make it easier for the other person to understand you.
这会让你听起来自信，还会让别人更容易理解你。
Be interested in the OTHER person.
对另一个人感兴趣。
是对方做的吗？
You want the other person to take an action.
你想要别人行动起来。
I can forget the other person isn't really there.
我会忘记另一个人并不真的在那里。
And the other person has to answer the questions.
另一个人就要回答这些问题。
Four, do not criticize the other person publically.
不要当众批评他人。
Calmly listen to everything the other person is saying.
冷静地倾听对方所说的每件事。
Your thought is creative; you can bless the other person.
你的想法是创意无限的，你可以向其他人传递祝福。
You want to make the other person feel noticed and valued.
你想要让其他人感觉被注意和重视。
So, how do we know what the other person is truly feeling?
那么，我们怎么知道别人真实的感觉？
Sometimes it can even lead us to knocking the other person.
有时，这种情绪甚至还会使得我们去攻击他人。
You'd just know that the other person was nodding agreement.
你将会知道对方在点头表示同意。
We want the other person to feel the same pain that they caused us.
我们希望那些伤害我们的人能够感受相同的疼痛.
Can you see why the other person may have behaved the way they did?
你能看清楚其他的人所表现出来的行为吗？
Show concern for the other person and the other persons feelings.
表示对对方本人以及对方感情的关注。
Was loyalty dropped just to benefit the casual needs of the other person?
忠诚度的降低是否满足了其它人偶然的需要？
Did you notice that I didn’t mention the other person who wronged you?
你是否注意到我一直不曾提到那个给你带来烦恼的人？
You face the other person directly. Your posture is relaxed and at ease.
你会肘臂前倾，身体放松，面向对方体态舒展，整个人处于自然轻松的状态。
The last reply is a justification that the other person might appreciate.
最后一个反应是别人较为悦纳的辩护方式。
Don't let the other person think that you are depriving them of something.
不要让别人认为你在让取得他们的某些东西。
Don't let the other person think that you are depriving them of something.
不要让别人认为你在让取得他们的某些东西。
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