我如何见到辅导员？
"That's a start," said the counselor.
“那这是个开端，”咨询师说。
"Tell me the story," said the counselor.
“告诉我你的情况，”咨询师说。
The counselor bounced up to denounce discount.
顾问跳起来指责折扣。
The counselor bounced up to denounce discount.
顾问上升蹦跳指责折扣。
"Why does he need a break?" asked the counselor.
“为什么他需要休息？”咨询师问。
The counselor gave us some disinterested advice.
顾问给了我们一些无私的忠告。
"What was Jeremy's concern?" asked the counselor.
“杰里米的问题什么？”咨询师问。
"Sounds like he must have had a concern," said the counselor.
“听起来他应该已经有个问题，”咨询师说。
The counselor on our trip forgot our toilet paper, bread and tent.
我们的辅导员忘了带我们的卫生纸，面包和帐篷。
I don't know what you're complaining about, said the counselor.
我不知道你在抱怨什么，婚姻顾问说。
"I don't know what you're complaining about," said the counselor.
“我不知道你在抱怨什么，”婚姻顾问说。
"So let's think of what empathy might have sounded like," said the counselor.
“所以我们想想共鸣应该是怎样的，”咨询师说。
But as the counselor asked more questions, the picture began to brighten.
然而当她的顾问深入询问后发现她的情况开始好转了。
I don't know what you're complaining about, "said the counselor, you're".
“我不知道你有什么可抱怨的，”顾问说，你。
No matter what your problem, try to think of the counselor as someone who's on your side.
不论你的问题是什么，都要把辅导员当作站在你这一边的那个人。
After a year of sessions and a battery of tests, the counselor reached his conclusion.
经过一年的治疗和一系列测试，心理辅导师给出了他的结论。
But in most schools the counselor deals with lots of school issues - as well as personal ones.
但是在大多数学校中，辅导员处理很多学校事务——同样也有个人的事情。
It's good for the counselor and your parents to know each other when everything is going OK.
当一切进展的很好时，你的辅导员和你的父母互相了解对方是非常好。
"That makes sense," said the counselor. "And what was it that your were trying to work out?"
“那没什么问题，”咨询师说。“那么，你试图安排的是什么？”
And the counselor adds offering praise or support to someone can also improve your own outlook.
这位心理顾问补充说，赞扬或帮助某人也可以提升自己的人生观。
In couples counseling you'll see the counselor focus on all of the qualifiers we add to our words.
在夫妻情感咨询中，咨询师所关注的往往是我们加在话语中限定词。
The most common setting for most students is a private meeting just between the student and the counselor.
对于大多数同学，最普通的方式是学生与辅导员之间的单独见面。
"I'm wondering if that's because you skipped the first step of Plan b... empathy," the counselor said.
“我想知道如果你跳过了方案B的第一步…共鸣，”咨询师说。
"So your concern was that he wouldn't get his homework done before his karate class," said the counselor.
“所以你的问题是他在空道课前不愿意做家庭作业，”咨询师说。
Even in these rare cases, the counselor will share that information only with the people who need to know.
甚至在罕见的情况下，辅导员仅仅与需要知道的人分享信息。
It's usually easier to talk about a tough issue or a problem when you already feel comfortable with the counselor.
当你与你的辅导员在一起感到舒服时，谈论棘手的事情或问题通常会更容易。
Your friends and classmates don't need to know why you're seeing the counselor unless you choose to tell them.
你的朋友或同学不需要知道你为什么去见辅导员，除非你选择告诉他们。
Your friends and classmates don't need to know why you're seeing the counselor unless you choose to tell them.
你的朋友或同学不需要知道你为什么去见辅导员，除非你选择告诉他们。
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