When loved ones, co-workers, or even strangers say and do hurtful things, many times it is really not about you.

当亲人、同事，甚至是陌生人说出或者做了伤人的事情，很多时候都真的跟你没有关系，不是你的问题。

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Wendy Fandl sees a lot of children growing up without a lot of guidance. They say harsh and hurtful things about each other, and the words come too easily.

温蒂•凡德尔(WendyFandl)见过许多孩子在缺乏大人引导的环境下长大，这些孩子经常彼此说些刻薄伤人的话，而且往往不假思索就脱口而出。

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However, their honesty and loyalty can extract a price from their partners, because they may be more likely to say blunt and hurtful things.

然而，他们的诚意和忠诚也要付出一部分代价，因为他们会说出一些愚蠢的和有伤感情的话来。

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However, their honesty and loyalty can extract a price from their partners, because they may be more likely to say blunt and hurtful things.

然而，他们的诚意和忠诚也要付出一部分代价，因为他们会说出一些愚蠢的和有伤感情的话来。

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