Once we do feel safely linked with our partner, we can tolerate the hurts they will—inevitably—inflict upon us in the course of daily life.
只要我们和我们的所爱的人保持着稳定的联系,我们就梦够忍受他们可能给我们带来的日常生活中的伤害。
“What I’ve found is that people who want to have a grounded life and live a regular life, they find ways to do it, ” says Simon Halls, partner in the big publicity firm PMK/HBH.
“我发现那些想过真实、正常生活的人总能找到办法做到,”PMK/HBH广告公司的合伙人SimonHalls说。
It is not hard to develop a positive attitude to life. If you see your friends or partner do things you don't approve of, reject the behavior not the person.
培养一种积极的生活态度并不难,如果你看见你的朋友和伴侣做了一件你不赞成的事,那么你应当否定这件事而不是这个人。
We fight with them to do it our way to meet our needs, but fighting with our partner is just a way of delaying ourself from moving forward in life.
我们会跟他们争斗,让他们来满足我们的需要。可是跟我们的亲密伙伴斗争只会延迟我们成长、向前的速度。
Do plan a life together: our plans may not always work out, but envisioning a future with our partner inspires us to take the right steps towards manifesting our long-term goals.
一定要一起规划人生。我们的规划不一定会实现,但是和伴侣一起憧憬未来可以激励我们沿着正确的方向朝着长期目标大步迈进。
If you are artistically inclined, do a life drawing course, practice until you are confident and then ask your partner to pose for you.
假如你有艺术倾向,参加写生画培训班,连续熬炼,晓得你有了信心,然后,请对方为你摆造型。
If you are artistically inclined, do a life drawing course, practice until you are confident and then ask your partner to pose for you.
假如你有艺术倾向,参加写生画培训班,连续熬炼,晓得你有了信心,然后,请对方为你摆造型。
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