可是，有一位男生却厌烦了，不信你听，“烦死了！”

However, there is a male but tired, and do not believe you listen to, "bored to death of!"

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试想如果你的朋友说你总是很自私，有多少人可以认真的听而不辩解，不发火或者干脆什么都不信？

Imagine if your close friend said you are always inconsiderate and selfish. How many of us can listen to this without getting defensive, firing back in anger, or immediately discounting it?

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