因此，我们很少记住整个事实，而是会记住更多事实的来源，你在哪个网站看到的或是哪封邮件中发现的...
So weremember fewer facts and we remember more sources, which website you saw it onor whose e-mail to look in to find that… .
为了应对孩子否认事实的态度，你需要反复的跟他说：“是的，爷爷已经去世了，再也不会回来了，但我们会记住他的，所有爱他的人都会记住他。”
To counter denial, tell your child as often as necessary that yes, Grandpa is dead, and will not return, but those who love him will always remember him.
魔鬼般训练的间期，武术教练会告诉我们“记住，是你花钱请我来训练你的，所以你必须去享受这一过程。”那个时候，我们会一笑了之，但这确实也起了些作用。
During particularly torturous workouts, my martial arts instructor would say to us: "Remember, you're paying me for this, so you might as well enjoy it."
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