Don't be too quick to react. You have to absorb the moment, take it in, and then respond. That's one of the keys to success.

不要反应太快。你吸收的那一刻，接受它，然后回答。这是成功的关键之一。

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Don't just focus on the first few words your partner says - listen to their whole statement, take a moment to absorb it, and then think about what you want to say in a return.

也不要逮着对方开头的只字片语不放-要倾听他们的全部诉说，再好好地吸收，最后思量着怎样回应。

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