If the both sides can't control their emotion, and the quarrel do happens, I think there is no need to continue a "cold war".

如果双方都没能控制住情绪，争吵还是发生了，那么我认为还是不要再继续进行冷战了，因为这对双方都没有好处。

youdao

My sister and I used to quarrel all the time.

我和妹妹过去老是吵架。

《牛津词典》

Many a brisk argument or an insulting quarrel breaks out as the weary queues push and shove each other to get on buses and tubes.

当疲惫的队伍推推搡搡挤上公共汽车或地铁时，许多刻薄的争论或侮辱性的争吵爆发了。

youdao

Remember, the Iliad starts because of a quarrel and the quarrel emerges from the fact that the Greeks are busily being killed by a terrible plague that has struck them. They say, "We got to find out what's happening?"

记住,《伊利亚特》,是从一场争论中开始的,一场肆虐的瘟疫夺走了无数希腊人的生命,希腊人大为震惊,他们说,"到底发生了什么"

耶鲁公开课 - 古希腊历史简介课程节选

So what is at stake in this quarrel between Socrates and the poetic tradition ? that he alludes to?

那到底他所暗示,介于苏格拉底与诗学传统间的争论,关键点为何？

耶鲁公开课 - 政治哲学导论课程节选

Well, some examples, later on in history there's a quarrel between Athens and Megara as to who controls the island of Salamis.

好,再举几个例子,后来雅典和麦加拉间,就谁统治萨拉弥斯岛的问题起了争端

耶鲁公开课 - 古希腊历史简介课程节选

And then, you have the quarrel between Sudan and Chad, with the Sudanese accusing the Chadians of backing the Darfur rebels, and the Chadians accusing the Sudanese of supporting Chadian rebels, who are trying to overthrow the Chadian president.

NPR: Negotiations for Darfur Peace Extended in Nigeria

And yet the ongoing quarrel - the Malawian government is still accusing Madonna of lying about her charity work - strikes me as interesting and revealing.

BBC: Madonna, Malawi and the infamous attack

He likens the current spat between Mr Bush and the conservatives to a lovers' quarrel, rather than the beginning of divorce proceedings.

ECONOMIST: Lexington