If you are crying because you are bereft of one in whom you have invested a great deal of affection, it was not really affection.

但是如果你落泪，是因为你丧失疼爱了半辈子的人，那也不是真的疼爱。

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Purgatory should have been a safe haven for souls that belong neither in Heaven nor Hell, but instead John finds himself in a corrupt prison, one bereft of freedom or pleasure.

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