我必须说一开始我认为做妈妈就是要多花点时间，但我很快了解到根本不是这样的。

I have to say at the beginning I thought motherhood was an issue of time management, but I learnt very quickly that was not so.

youdao

我必须说一开始我认为做妈妈就是要多花点时间，但我很快了解到根本不是这样的。

When you get a call with a request for a meeting, there is no time to go home and farm the baby off.

youdao

But it's possible,I suggested, that we really shouldn't focus on the question, what does it take for me to survive?

但我认为，很可能，那根本不是我们应该重视的问题，比起讨论我要存活下去需要什么条件？

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