学会告诉他们你想要他们做什么，而不是说你不想要他们做什么：说“抓紧我的手”，而不要说“不要跑到马路上去了”。

Learn to tell them what you want them to do instead of saying what you don't want: "Hold my hand tight", not "don't run into the road".

youdao

你可以这样想：这个孩子不是我原来想要的那个孩子。

Think to yourself: "This is not my child that I expected and planned for."

youdao

我不是在告诉你可以拥有任何想要的东西。

I'm not trying to tell you can have anything you wish for.

youdao

But I meant something else, that's right, but I meant something else.

但是我指的不是这个,你说的没错,但是我想要别的答案

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