例如：如果孩子经常以不合群的方法来获得他人注意，家长不应该跑过去并问她：“亲爱的，怎么了，你为什么不高兴呢？”

E. g: if the child is always withdrawing to get attention, the parents shall not go and ask: "Honey, what's wrong, why are you not happy?"

youdao

你为什么这么不高兴呢？

Why are you so upset?

youdao

亲爱的，为什么你看起来不高兴呢？

Darling, why you looks so unhappy?

youdao