与其说这位小伙子撒了一个小慌，不如说他误读了调查项目的问题——他以为观看电视节目指的是单独一人收看(也就不用迁就他人)，而实际上他大部分的时间是和其他人一起看电视的。
When asked how he watched television, he gave an answer that described his behaviour when he was alone, and thus did not have to compromise. But most of the time he watched with other people.
有时出于恐惧和期望,尤其是随着我们生活的社会和文化产生的观念，我们选择了那些最能安抚恐惧，迁就期望的东西——那些其他人（或根本没人）会快乐的东西。
especially those spawned by the culture andsociety we live in, and we choose whatever we believe will most appease thosefears and expectations – that which makes everyone else (or no one at all)happy.
因为你的力量和意志迫使他人改变他们的行为方式来迁就你。
Because your strength and resolves makes other people change THEIR mode of behavior to suit yours.
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