Actually talk to her.

跟她真正的谈话。

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Not only do you first need to ACTUALLY meet a woman, approach her, date her for awhile, before you even talk commitment, there is also another issue that arises.

至少你得首先真的认识了一位小姐，接近她，和她交往一段时间，在你给她任何承诺之前，还有另外一个问题。

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Talk to her for a while and you do begin to wonder whether the words and ideas are actually her own - or whether she's simply parroting her mum's opinions.

和她聊了一会，你会想，到底这些想法是她自己有的，还是，她只是在鹦鹉学舌地重复她妈妈的话。

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