You're acting out a painful pattern, and even though you believe your troubles would be over if only your girlfriend would come back, that's not the answer.

你在演绎一个痛苦的模式，即便你相信只要你的女朋友回心转意你的麻烦就到头了，我也要告诉你，那不是你的真正问题的答案。

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Even though you don't, my heart will still believe, That love is what is between you and me.

即使你不这样做，我的心仍然相信，存在于你我之间的是爱情。

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Take that feeling and use it to take action right now. Go after what you want, even though you may not believe that it is possible.

如果有感觉就立刻采取行动。去做你想要做的，即使你不太相信会实现。

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You believe everything. Next, you get a college education and you don't believe anything, and then you reach the level of wisdom, the Higher Naivete, and you know what to believe even though you can't prove it.

你会相信眼前的一切,然后你接受大学教育,这时你又开始怀疑一切了,最后你将达到,"高级天真"的智者境界,这时即使没有证据,你也会去相信

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