Learn to look for the love, beauty and kindness around you instead of focusing on your wounded feelings.

学会寻找你周围的爱、美和善良，而不是专注于你受伤的情感。

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"Instead of focusing on your wounded feelings, learn to look for the love, beauty and kindness around you," Luskin says.

“反而应该专注于受伤的感情，学会寻找周围的爱、美丽和善良，”罗斯金说。

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“Instead of focusing on your wounded feelings, learn to look for the love, beauty and kindness around you,” Frederic says.

弗雷德里克说：“你不应该关注自己受伤的情绪，而应学会去寻找周围的爱、善、美。”

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To look at the dog, you would think he was not worth anything but to sit around and look mean and look for a chance to steal something.

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So not only is there evolutionary pressure for me to lie to you, for me to persuade you for instance, that if we're going to have a conflict- if you are threatening me " "Don't threaten me, I am not the sort of man you could screw around with" But there's evolutionary pressure for you to look and say, "No. You are the sort of man you could screw around with.

因此，不仅存在着要求我对你说谎,的进化压力，比如，如果我们之间存有冲突-,当你威胁我时,我会说“别吓唬我，我可不是吃素“,而且还存在着要求你辨别谎言的进化压力,你会说，“不，你肯定不行。

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I like the old way but just to think with the GPS and you're going around and you look like you are looking for mines or something.

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You can read from the volumes for hours at a time, and when you are finished for the evening you can look around you and try to comprehend that all of this was taking place in the same nation where we live today.

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And then, when your slack mouth has finally shut and you can shuffle around the area for a closer look, there are the smaller things.

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And then, one day, you look around at that very table of team members and notice that, for once, no one is talking about work.

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