To listen is to say, "I value your opinion, I care about our relationship, and you matter to me.

去倾听，就是在传达这样的信息：“我重视你的观点，我在乎我们的关系，你对我很重要。”

youdao

If, "you only care about your job," means, "I need more time and attention from you," act on that information as soon as you can.Make a plan with them. "Will you have dinner with me tonight?"

若“你只关心你的工作”意味着“我需要你更多的时间和关注”，那么马上据此信息制定一个计划，你可以问他“今晚能和我一起吃饭么？”

youdao

It's difficult to explain and may come as a shock to you, but in general I don't really care about dolls that much, they are just vehicles for creative exploration with intriguing possibilities to me.

我觉得这一点很难解释，你们大概也会很震惊，但是我一般都不是那么在乎娃娃的，它们只是我艺术创作和激发灵感的工具而已。

youdao

They come up to me and they talk to me about how hopeful and really, you know, worried they are about getting health care or losing their job, or now losing their home with all of this subprime mortgage crisis.

NPR: Despite Polls, Hillary Clinton Is Optimistic About S.C.

"What you have is Mitt Romney running around the country, saying, 'Well, you know, my wife tells me that what women really care about are economic issues, and when I listen to my wife, that's what I'm hearing, ' " Rosen said.

CNN: Romney condemns Obama's 'assault on our economic freedom'