Spend time with them and do something they like doing for a change, instead of trying to be in charge.

花时间和他们在一起，有时要做些他们喜欢做的事情，而不要试图控制他们。

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Hardware can never be "free as in beer" because duplication always costs something, and even the best-intentioned advocates can't afford to offer physical products free of charge indefinitely.

硬件永远不可能像啤酒那样免费，因为复制总是会有成本，即便最诚意的倡导者也负担不起无限地免费提供硬件产品。

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Take some initiative, take the reins, and be in charge of something that institutes a change.

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