No one can tell you how to grieve, and no one will do your grieving for you.

没有人能告诉你如何去伤心，没有人会为你做你惆怅。

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No matter how you choose to grieve, there's no one right way to do it.

不论你多悲伤，都没有适当的解决方法来应对。

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But for you to grieve over how you look is not necessary.

但是，你感到悲痛你怎么看待是没有必要的。

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For families from the Newtown area, and even beyond, a pressing problem will be how to help children cope with the aftermath of this tragedy -- and indeed how to give parents space to grieve, knowing their children are being looked after.

CNN: Help for victims of Sandy Hook Shooting

Det Insp Dave Williams has also urged Taylor to reveal how he disposed of his wife's remains, so her family and friends can grieve and put her body to rest.

BBC: Alethea Taylor