But it's less about being polite to people because you don't want to hurt their feelings and more about being polite so you don't look bad.
但是讲客气不是为了讲礼貌而不让别人受到伤害，而是为了讲礼貌让自己看起来没那么差劲。
It's tempting when you are in a bad mood or when you don't want to be hurt to be passive aggressive, to not say what you mean, to make veiled hints in order to test the other person and so on.
当你情绪很糟糕的时候或者当你不想被冷战伤到的时候，不说任何理由，只是间接的暗示以测试对方就是试探。
"I've hurt you, " she said. "I feel so bad, I want you to be proud of me someday, Mom. "
“我伤害了你，”她说，“我很难过，我希望有一天可以成为你的骄傲，妈妈。”
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