They allow us to become good parents to ourselves, giving ourselves the guidance, support, and nurturance we need to become the people we want to be.

它们使我们成为自己的好拍档，给予我们指引，支持并提供我们所需的教育驱使我们成为心中的模样。

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They emphasize control, without nurturance or support to achieve it.

他们强调控制，却不通过培养和支持来获取。

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