I'm not love just don't want to worry about personal gains and losses.

我不是不爱了只是不想再患得患失。

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You are my dream I am worry about personal gains and losses, you are not essential.

你是我患得患失的梦，我是你可有可无的人。

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While working with others, she is always thinking about her personal gains and losses.

与别人一道工作时，她总是斤斤计较个人得失。

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And give you some ideas on how to be proactive in turning your losses into personal accomplishments and gains.

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