Sometimes it is what others had done to us; sometimes it is our own self-reproach for things we had done or not done, feelings we have had or not had.

有时候是别人对我们做的事，有时候是我们对于自己做过或没做过的事情的自责，或者我们曾经有或者没有过的感觉。

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They experience shock, guilt, shame, self-reproach, and other negative emotions, just as do family members and friends of the patient.

他们经历震惊、内疚、愧疚、自责和其他负面感情，就像是患者的家庭成员和朋友一样。

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In making me the offer, you must have satisfied the delicacy of your feelings with regard to my family, and may take possession of Longbourn estate whenever it falls, without any self-reproach.

而你呢，既然向我提出了求婚，那么，你对于我家里的事情，也就不必感到有什么不好意思了，将来浪博恩庄园一旦轮到你做评价，你就可以取之无愧了。

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By disassociating morality from actions, a person can wholeheartedly support the public figure without being subject to self-reproach.

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In her brief stay, she makes contact with both men, drunkenly embarrasses herself, causes turmoil among everyone she meets, and, along with whatever pleasure she can take, also gets humiliation, betrayal, and self-reproach.

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