If she insists, allow her to pay what she wishes (this is not just a rule for dating). You will be the best judge at the time whether your date is only insisting because she feels obliged.

如果她刻意坚持，容许她付她所愿意付的（这不仅仅是适合约会的一个规则哦）如果你的女友坚持分摊，不管是因为她的难为情还是什么原因，那时候你一定得察言观色。

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She says, "Companies, especially these days, are not interested in candidates that are only interested in pay."

她说：“公司，尤其是如今的公司对那些只关心钱的员工是没兴趣的。”

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Michelle Obama said the purpose of the gathering was not only to pay tribute to luminaries in the struggle for equality, but also to what she called the"quiet heroes" who,in the process of shaping America, achieved extraordinary things.

VOA: standard.2010.03.08